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		<title>Comment on Deepak Chopra is coming to Manchester UK! by Waldo</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/deepak-chopra-is-coming-to-manchester-uk/comment-page-1/#comment-21932</link>
		<dc:creator>Waldo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 15:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Firstly, this is not a review as I&#039;m not really qualified to do so!!!  Ok, on with the comment!  I have never read, listened to, or watched anything by Deepak Chopra.  However, Having got there early with my girlfriend who really likes Deepak&#039;s work, I found myself in the front row on the centre seat at the Bridgewater Hall on saturday 26th Sept 09, to listen to a very interesting lecture.  The first part of the lecture was (to my knowledge) a fairly scientifically sound lecture with lots of reference to String Theory.  I found that part of the lecture very interesting.  The second part of the lecture was not as interesting to me as there seemed to be more reference to theological topics, but still managed to hold my interest until the end.

There was a great comedy moment when track 3 of a pre-prepared CD seemed to misbehave.  To which Deepak claimed the universe was conspiring against him (laughter from audience).

Still, I did actually enjoy it.  Deepak also stuck around to sign lots of books at half time and at the end.

My lasting memory of the night was Deepak making a reference to Einstein who once said that God didn&#039;t play dice(that there is order to the Universe).  Deepak believes God does play dice, but doesn&#039;t show where he throws them.

Anyway, if you&#039;d like to comment on my post, please do, but be gentle with me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Firstly, this is not a review as I&#8217;m not really qualified to do so!!!  Ok, on with the comment!  I have never read, listened to, or watched anything by Deepak Chopra.  However, Having got there early with my girlfriend who really likes Deepak&#8217;s work, I found myself in the front row on the centre seat at the Bridgewater Hall on saturday 26th Sept 09, to listen to a very interesting lecture.  The first part of the lecture was (to my knowledge) a fairly scientifically sound lecture with lots of reference to String Theory.  I found that part of the lecture very interesting.  The second part of the lecture was not as interesting to me as there seemed to be more reference to theological topics, but still managed to hold my interest until the end.</p>
<p>There was a great comedy moment when track 3 of a pre-prepared CD seemed to misbehave.  To which Deepak claimed the universe was conspiring against him (laughter from audience).</p>
<p>Still, I did actually enjoy it.  Deepak also stuck around to sign lots of books at half time and at the end.</p>
<p>My lasting memory of the night was Deepak making a reference to Einstein who once said that God didn&#8217;t play dice(that there is order to the Universe).  Deepak believes God does play dice, but doesn&#8217;t show where he throws them.</p>
<p>Anyway, if you&#8217;d like to comment on my post, please do, but be gentle with me!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The True Name of God by Myself</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/the-true-name-of-god/comment-page-1/#comment-21607</link>
		<dc:creator>Myself</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 12:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got interesting fact for u:

1. Moses, IAM THAT IAM, in aram, it formed similiar like EBIEL (My Father/source/creator is GOD)

1,5. Jerusalem = JeHovh is Peace. Remember Jerusalem is PLACE for GOD name on EARTH.

1,7. Jesus = JeHovh is salvation.

2. JESUS say &quot;Our Father in Heaven&quot;. 

Father(mother) with no sex type.

Fact is YHWH is a Title.

&quot;Father/Source/Creator&quot; is what we have to call when we coming(shalat-islam) to HIM.

But the true name will never spelled or touch by physically world. 
ONLY Feel and understood by our Heart.

It is Peace, Love, Joy, and Salvation.
It is like the open sea and the green field.  
It is like water in desert.
Ice on summer and fire on morning cold.

It is a joy, hope, smile, beauty.

It is GOD name.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got interesting fact for u:</p>
<p>1. Moses, IAM THAT IAM, in aram, it formed similiar like EBIEL (My Father/source/creator is GOD)</p>
<p>1,5. Jerusalem = JeHovh is Peace. Remember Jerusalem is PLACE for GOD name on EARTH.</p>
<p>1,7. Jesus = JeHovh is salvation.</p>
<p>2. JESUS say &#8220;Our Father in Heaven&#8221;. </p>
<p>Father(mother) with no sex type.</p>
<p>Fact is YHWH is a Title.</p>
<p>&#8220;Father/Source/Creator&#8221; is what we have to call when we coming(shalat-islam) to HIM.</p>
<p>But the true name will never spelled or touch by physically world.<br />
ONLY Feel and understood by our Heart.</p>
<p>It is Peace, Love, Joy, and Salvation.<br />
It is like the open sea and the green field.<br />
It is like water in desert.<br />
Ice on summer and fire on morning cold.</p>
<p>It is a joy, hope, smile, beauty.</p>
<p>It is GOD name.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Steps to realising your goals by Christine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 21:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just read your &#039;steps to realising your goals&#039;.  

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just read your &#8217;steps to realising your goals&#8217;.  </p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Deepak Chopra is coming to Manchester UK! by mbs</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/deepak-chopra-is-coming-to-manchester-uk/comment-page-1/#comment-19940</link>
		<dc:creator>mbs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 15:15:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.mindbodyspirit.co.uk/events.php?eventID=21</description>
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		<title>Comment on Successful Living by Sonia Gallagher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sonia Gallagher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 05:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very good post! I actually made the list you refer to in step 1 and through that list and much introspection through meditation, I realized that I was not happy with my profession whatsoever. I had practiced law for over five years and owned by own law Firm... and had not been happy for even half the time I was practicing law!

I must tell you it was an incredibly huge step and decision to make to leave my career. I can definitely understand how people go through their lives through the &quot;motions&quot; and complain about it but not do a thing. It&#039;s the easy way to live life. Yet, these people don&#039;t realize they are robbing themselves of the opportunity of really being happy. The worst thing they can do to themselves. 

Western society doesn&#039;t advocate introspetion, meditation, or any activity where you look into yourself. People just &quot;relax and watch tv&quot;! Hopefully with the aid of the internet people will learn more and more about how to live a better life.  My goal now is to bring information about meditation to everyone who is living a life filled with stress and knows nothing about meditation (parents, students, busy professionals, etc) and to create a community where they can go to learn about it.

All the best to you and yours,
Sonia Gallagher</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good post! I actually made the list you refer to in step 1 and through that list and much introspection through meditation, I realized that I was not happy with my profession whatsoever. I had practiced law for over five years and owned by own law Firm&#8230; and had not been happy for even half the time I was practicing law!</p>
<p>I must tell you it was an incredibly huge step and decision to make to leave my career. I can definitely understand how people go through their lives through the &#8220;motions&#8221; and complain about it but not do a thing. It&#8217;s the easy way to live life. Yet, these people don&#8217;t realize they are robbing themselves of the opportunity of really being happy. The worst thing they can do to themselves. </p>
<p>Western society doesn&#8217;t advocate introspetion, meditation, or any activity where you look into yourself. People just &#8220;relax and watch tv&#8221;! Hopefully with the aid of the internet people will learn more and more about how to live a better life.  My goal now is to bring information about meditation to everyone who is living a life filled with stress and knows nothing about meditation (parents, students, busy professionals, etc) and to create a community where they can go to learn about it.</p>
<p>All the best to you and yours,<br />
Sonia Gallagher</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quantum Holy Of Holies Within You! by Guy Incognito</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/quantum-holy-of-holies-within-you/comment-page-1/#comment-17632</link>
		<dc:creator>Guy Incognito</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The ultimate revelation of God on earth – took up space and did not take up any space – it is a rip in the ‘space time continuum’ a porthole to the Infinite – to the spiritual – a revelation of the true nature of Reality – the Quantum nature of Reality, and perhaps even the miraculous nature of all Reality.&quot;

Quantum - Physics a discrete quantity of energy proportional in magnitude to the frequency of the radiation it represents.

What you are &#039;teaching&#039; is Quantum Mysticism, the worst kind of pseudoscientific flim-flam there is. Perhaps you model yourself on Deepak Chopra, peddling nonsense to vulnerable persons in exchange for cash (not spiritual enlightenment)?

I strongly advise you read http://www.csicop.org/si/9701/quantum-quackery.html and pay particular attention to the following:

&quot;(However,) no compelling argument or evidence requires that quantum mechanics plays a central role in human consciousness or provides instantaneous, holistic connections across the universe. Modern physics, including quantum mechanics, remains completely materialistic and reductionistic while being consistent with all scientific observations.&quot;

Max, get a Physics degree and then we can talk...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The ultimate revelation of God on earth – took up space and did not take up any space – it is a rip in the ‘space time continuum’ a porthole to the Infinite – to the spiritual – a revelation of the true nature of Reality – the Quantum nature of Reality, and perhaps even the miraculous nature of all Reality.&#8221;</p>
<p>Quantum &#8211; Physics a discrete quantity of energy proportional in magnitude to the frequency of the radiation it represents.</p>
<p>What you are &#8216;teaching&#8217; is Quantum Mysticism, the worst kind of pseudoscientific flim-flam there is. Perhaps you model yourself on Deepak Chopra, peddling nonsense to vulnerable persons in exchange for cash (not spiritual enlightenment)?</p>
<p>I strongly advise you read <a href="http://www.csicop.org/si/9701/quantum-quackery.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.csicop.org/si/9701/quantum-quackery.html</a> and pay particular attention to the following:</p>
<p>&#8220;(However,) no compelling argument or evidence requires that quantum mechanics plays a central role in human consciousness or provides instantaneous, holistic connections across the universe. Modern physics, including quantum mechanics, remains completely materialistic and reductionistic while being consistent with all scientific observations.&#8221;</p>
<p>Max, get a Physics degree and then we can talk&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quantum Holy Of Holies Within You! by Urban Guru</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/quantum-holy-of-holies-within-you/comment-page-1/#comment-17598</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Guy Inc.

Thanks for your seriously enlightening message! Perhaps you&#039;d like to write something on the Holy of Holies and Quantum Physics yourself?

I&#039;ve not really discussed Quantum Physics in this piece.

But can quote various new age fluffy scientist who I imagine you think are messed up too.

Oh well!

If you&#039;re looking to really rip apart my New Age pseudo science - please read some of my other essays on the subject, i&#039;m sure they will infuriate you, because they are not about science, but about perception.

http://urbanguru.co.uk/light-fantastic/

http://urbanguru.co.uk/the-world-is-created-and-recreated-every-fraction-of-a-moment-every-moment-is-brand-new/

http://urbanguru.co.uk/all-existence-is-spiritual/

http://urbanguru.co.uk/i-love-this-corner-of-the-world/ 

Guy - within you is a true Guru, beyond the anger, beyond the binary dualism, beyond your self.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Guy Inc.</p>
<p>Thanks for your seriously enlightening message! Perhaps you&#8217;d like to write something on the Holy of Holies and Quantum Physics yourself?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve not really discussed Quantum Physics in this piece.</p>
<p>But can quote various new age fluffy scientist who I imagine you think are messed up too.</p>
<p>Oh well!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re looking to really rip apart my New Age pseudo science &#8211; please read some of my other essays on the subject, i&#8217;m sure they will infuriate you, because they are not about science, but about perception.</p>
<p><a href="http://urbanguru.co.uk/light-fantastic/" rel="nofollow">http://urbanguru.co.uk/light-fantastic/</a></p>
<p><a href="http://urbanguru.co.uk/the-world-is-created-and-recreated-every-fraction-of-a-moment-every-moment-is-brand-new/" rel="nofollow">http://urbanguru.co.uk/the-world-is-created-and-recreated-every-fraction-of-a-moment-every-moment-is-brand-new/</a></p>
<p><a href="http://urbanguru.co.uk/all-existence-is-spiritual/" rel="nofollow">http://urbanguru.co.uk/all-existence-is-spiritual/</a></p>
<p><a href="http://urbanguru.co.uk/i-love-this-corner-of-the-world/" rel="nofollow">http://urbanguru.co.uk/i-love-this-corner-of-the-world/</a> </p>
<p>Guy &#8211; within you is a true Guru, beyond the anger, beyond the binary dualism, beyond your self.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quantum Holy Of Holies Within You! by Guy Incognito</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy Incognito</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, you are one seriously messed up individual. I think you need to go and do some research on quantum physics before you start spouting all this crap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, you are one seriously messed up individual. I think you need to go and do some research on quantum physics before you start spouting all this crap.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Guru by jayne lawton</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/media/the-guru/comment-page-1/#comment-13516</link>
		<dc:creator>jayne lawton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi urban guru
you truely are wonderful
thank you so much for mentioning our website and products on your fantastic site.
love the website and may you have a fantastic winter
jayne lawton</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi urban guru<br />
you truely are wonderful<br />
thank you so much for mentioning our website and products on your fantastic site.<br />
love the website and may you have a fantastic winter<br />
jayne lawton</p>
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		<title>Comment on Whats Life All About? by MIKYWHITE</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/whats-life-all-about/comment-page-1/#comment-13070</link>
		<dc:creator>MIKYWHITE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I APPRECIATE U GUYS.KEEP ON THE GOOD WORK.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Guru? Shmooru! by E</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/guru-smooru/comment-page-1/#comment-10858</link>
		<dc:creator>E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 05:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Got to the site via dead link and WhoIs. Holy stuff. Interesting tribe of Israel opting into the revolution.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Guru? Shmooru! by admin</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/guru-smooru/comment-page-1/#comment-9231</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 22:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boruch? are you saying that you belive in the Urban Guru? or that the Urban Guru is a heretic? Because this teaching is actually from the Rebbe!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boruch? are you saying that you belive in the Urban Guru? or that the Urban Guru is a heretic? Because this teaching is actually from the Rebbe!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Guru? Shmooru! by Boruch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Boruch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ani maamin...</description>
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		<title>Comment on You are the Universe by Urban Guru TM</title>
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		<dc:creator>Urban Guru TM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2007 08:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] As I’ve previously mentioned I can conclusively prove that long term sleep deprivation and disturbance really does affect ones mental abilities and spiritual agilities. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] As I’ve previously mentioned I can conclusively prove that long term sleep deprivation and disturbance really does affect ones mental abilities and spiritual agilities. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Best Mom in the World by admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 23:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One is only a reflection of what they find in the person whose eyes they are looking into .G-d Bless you  xxx</description>
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		<title>Comment on Vertical Farms by zackarie brazeau</title>
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		<dc:creator>zackarie brazeau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2007 20:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yo this is a pretty awsome idea..</description>
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		<title>Comment on Heroes, Idols &amp; Superheroes by Urban Guru TM</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/heroes-idols-superheroes/comment-page-1/#comment-2157</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Guru TM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 11:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] As a kinda continuation from my post about Idols … I want to say something about society, not something new, but something you already know. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] As a kinda continuation from my post about Idols … I want to say something about society, not something new, but something you already know. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Quarter Life Crisis by dave</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/quarter-life-crisis/comment-page-1/#comment-2154</link>
		<dc:creator>dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 06:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If anyone wants to talk to other twenty-somethings about quarter life crises, you can check out www.gradgab.com.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Inner Peace Or Material Wealth? by suzanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>suzanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2007 11:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would dearly love to have inner peace, and in the main I have a wounderful life, BUT, I need some material weath to be able to live why is it impossible to have both.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would dearly love to have inner peace, and in the main I have a wounderful life, BUT, I need some material weath to be able to live why is it impossible to have both.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In answer to the BBC&#8217;s &#8216;Why Blog?&#8217; by Boo</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/in-answer-to-the-bbcs-why-blog/comment-page-1/#comment-40</link>
		<dc:creator>Boo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2007 17:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I stumbled on your site quite by accident - I googled the &#039;elusivness of happiness&#039; and your site was a match.

Having now read some of your blogs, I must say they are totally inspiring and just what I need.

You blog &#039;be happy dammit&#039; and &#039;young, rich, sexy, happy&#039; are particular favs as they touch a nerve.

I&#039;ll definatley be book marking this site and reading more of the blogs.

Keep up the positivity ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stumbled on your site quite by accident &#8211; I googled the &#8216;elusivness of happiness&#8217; and your site was a match.</p>
<p>Having now read some of your blogs, I must say they are totally inspiring and just what I need.</p>
<p>You blog &#8216;be happy dammit&#8217; and &#8216;young, rich, sexy, happy&#8217; are particular favs as they touch a nerve.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll definatley be book marking this site and reading more of the blogs.</p>
<p>Keep up the positivity <img src='http://urbanguru.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Contact by Urban Guru &#187; Craig Harper&#8217;s thoughts on perspective</title>
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		<dc:creator>Urban Guru &#187; Craig Harper&#8217;s thoughts on perspective</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 22:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Looking in the Big Mirror by Urban Guru &#187; Craig Harper&#8217;s thoughts on perspective</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/looking-in-the-big-mirror/comment-page-1/#comment-21</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Guru &#187; Craig Harper&#8217;s thoughts on perspective</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2007 22:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Craig Harper posted this comment on my piece called &#8216;Looking in the Big Mirror&#8217; a while back, but I thought you&#8217;d like to read it too. &#8220;We don’t see things as they are; we see things as we are. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Craig Harper posted this comment on my piece called &#8216;Looking in the Big Mirror&#8217; a while back, but I thought you&#8217;d like to read it too. &#8220;We don’t see things as they are; we see things as we are. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on I love this corner of the world! by Urban Guru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Urban Guru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2006 11:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cynicism is killing you!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Rich, sexy, young and happy by Abzie</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 23:09:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Urban Guru, you rock my world .A xx</description>
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		<title>Comment on I love this corner of the world! by Don Van Vliet (Captain Beefheart)</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/i-love-this-corner-of-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Don Van Vliet (Captain Beefheart)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2006 02:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The stars are matter
We are matter
But it doesn&#039;t matter</description>
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We are matter<br />
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		<title>Comment on I love this corner of the world! by That Tune</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/i-love-this-corner-of-the-world/comment-page-1/#comment-15</link>
		<dc:creator>That Tune</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2006 02:10:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What if Napolean had the B-52?
What if Elanor Roosevelt could fly?</description>
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		<title>Comment on Looking in the Big Mirror by Craig Harper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2006 12:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome Post!

We don&#039;t see things as they are; we see things as we are.

Anais Nin was spot on when she made the above observation. 

Have you ever helped a friend through a relationship crisis and been absolutely stunned and amazed when you got around to chatting to their significant other to get their interpretation of events? 

It&#039;s like, &quot;are you guys talking about the same thing?&quot; 

How can two people in the one relationship or situation, talking about the same issues, have such a completely different take on things and both &#039;know&#039; they&#039;re right? This happens in marriages, workplaces, friendships and a range of situations, every second of every day, in every corner of the globe. 

It&#039;s called perspective; how WE personally see things. 

Our reality.

To my amazement and disappointment, I discovered a few years ago that not everyone lives on my planet.

Obviously a big loss for humanity.

Sadly, I had to learn to listen to others; not easy for an only child.

Our personal opinion would be all we needed....if we were the only one in the relationship. Fortunately or unfortunately (again, it&#039;s a perspective thing) most of us interact with a range of people in a range of situations and circumstances, for a range of reasons, trying to create a range of outcomes, everyday. 

Here&#039;s what I&#039;ve learned in twenty five years of communicating for a living:

1. I need to listen more than I speak.
2. I need to talk with people, not at them.
3. In order for me to be able to genuinely connect with people, I need to know how they see the world (or at least try).
4. I will learn more about someone by watching than I will by listening to them 
(93% of communication is non-verbal).
5. Many people will tell me what they think I want to hear.
6. I can&#039;t impose my values, beliefs or opinions on people.
7. I can have the best motives and intentions... and still hurt and offend people.

Keep up the great work U.G.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome Post!</p>
<p>We don&#8217;t see things as they are; we see things as we are.</p>
<p>Anais Nin was spot on when she made the above observation. </p>
<p>Have you ever helped a friend through a relationship crisis and been absolutely stunned and amazed when you got around to chatting to their significant other to get their interpretation of events? </p>
<p>It&#8217;s like, &#8220;are you guys talking about the same thing?&#8221; </p>
<p>How can two people in the one relationship or situation, talking about the same issues, have such a completely different take on things and both &#8216;know&#8217; they&#8217;re right? This happens in marriages, workplaces, friendships and a range of situations, every second of every day, in every corner of the globe. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s called perspective; how WE personally see things. </p>
<p>Our reality.</p>
<p>To my amazement and disappointment, I discovered a few years ago that not everyone lives on my planet.</p>
<p>Obviously a big loss for humanity.</p>
<p>Sadly, I had to learn to listen to others; not easy for an only child.</p>
<p>Our personal opinion would be all we needed&#8230;.if we were the only one in the relationship. Fortunately or unfortunately (again, it&#8217;s a perspective thing) most of us interact with a range of people in a range of situations and circumstances, for a range of reasons, trying to create a range of outcomes, everyday. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned in twenty five years of communicating for a living:</p>
<p>1. I need to listen more than I speak.<br />
2. I need to talk with people, not at them.<br />
3. In order for me to be able to genuinely connect with people, I need to know how they see the world (or at least try).<br />
4. I will learn more about someone by watching than I will by listening to them<br />
(93% of communication is non-verbal).<br />
5. Many people will tell me what they think I want to hear.<br />
6. I can&#8217;t impose my values, beliefs or opinions on people.<br />
7. I can have the best motives and intentions&#8230; and still hurt and offend people.</p>
<p>Keep up the great work U.G.</p>
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		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/looking-in-the-big-mirror/comment-page-1/#comment-11</link>
		<dc:creator>Mancubist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2006 12:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mancubist has moved home. Please adjust your bookmark:

http://www.mancubist.co.uk/</description>
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		<title>Comment on Living without judgement by Urban Guru &#187; Looking in the Big Mirror</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/living-without-judgement/comment-page-1/#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Guru &#187; Looking in the Big Mirror</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2006 11:28:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] In continuation to my ‘Living without Judgement ’ blurb: [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Inner Peace Or Material Wealth? by Urban Guru &#187; In answer to the BBC&#8217;s &#8216;Why Blog?&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/inner-peace-or-material-wealth/comment-page-1/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Guru &#187; In answer to the BBC&#8217;s &#8216;Why Blog?&#8217;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Sep 2006 22:53:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I noticed this phenomenon driving around town yesterday while i was thinking that &#8216;89% of people would rather have Inner Peace than Material Wealth&#8217; (see my blog) [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I noticed this phenomenon driving around town yesterday while i was thinking that &#8216;89% of people would rather have Inner Peace than Material Wealth&#8217; (see my blog) [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on In answer to the BBC&#8217;s &#8216;Why Blog?&#8217; by riv</title>
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		<dc:creator>riv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2006 17:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>haha, oh shoot!  I just read one post on your blog and liked it and commented on it, but it&#039;s started to look like I will enjoy reading many of them.  Problem is I have no time!!  Oh, well, that should be my biggest problem in life.  I hope to have time at some point in the future.  In the meantime, keep that positive outlook up!  It&#039;s very refreshing!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>haha, oh shoot!  I just read one post on your blog and liked it and commented on it, but it&#8217;s started to look like I will enjoy reading many of them.  Problem is I have no time!!  Oh, well, that should be my biggest problem in life.  I hope to have time at some point in the future.  In the meantime, keep that positive outlook up!  It&#8217;s very refreshing!  <img src='http://urbanguru.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on People are Far More Beautiful &#8211; than they realise! by riv</title>
		<link>http://urbanguru.co.uk/people-are-far-more-beautiful-than-they-realise/comment-page-1/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator>riv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2006 17:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could&#039;t agree more!  I think everyone is beautiful, not always necessarily in the conventional sense, but there is always some aspect that makes them so.  What makes it hard for me to term a person &quot;beautiful&quot; is when s/he does not act in a beautiful manner.  But other than that, it is time to wake up and appreciate all the beauty around us.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could&#8217;t agree more!  I think everyone is beautiful, not always necessarily in the conventional sense, but there is always some aspect that makes them so.  What makes it hard for me to term a person &#8220;beautiful&#8221; is when s/he does not act in a beautiful manner.  But other than that, it is time to wake up and appreciate all the beauty around us.  <img src='http://urbanguru.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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